PSYCHOLOGICAL APPROACH
My classes combine my experience as a renowned dominatrix and a licensed psychotherapist into a program of domination skills, I call DommeCraft, that emphasize psychological and verbal aspects of BDSM.
Anyone can safely use a paddle, with a little direction. My students learn skills to stimulate the mind along with the body through an understanding of the psychology of BDSM and verbal skills that speak to their partners' psyches.
RENOWNED INSTRUCTOR
My track record of 20+ years mentoring prodominants to successful careers is unparalleled. My BDSM classes draw standing room only crowds appealing to pro, lifestyle, novice and curious people seeking in-depth knowledge. All of my group courses have sold out, with a waitlist.
PSYCHOLOGICAL APPROACH
My classes combine my experience as a renowned dominatrix and a licensed psychotherapist into a program of domination skills, I call DommeCraft, that emphasize psychological and verbal aspects of BDSM.
Anyone can safely use a paddle, with a little direction. My students learn skills to stimulate the mind along with the body through an understanding of the psychology of BDSM and verbal skills that speak to their partners' psyches.
RENOWNED INSTRUCTOR
My track record of 20+ years mentoring prodominants to successful careers is unparalleled. My BDSM classes draw standing room only crowds appealing to pro, lifestyle, novice and curious people seeking in-depth knowledge. All of my group courses have sold out, with a waitlist.
PSYCHOLOGICAL APPROACH
My classes combine my experience as a renowned dominatrix and a licensed psychotherapist into a program of domination skills, I call DommeCraft, that emphasize psychological and verbal aspects of BDSM.
Anyone can safely use a paddle, with a little direction. My students learn skills to stimulate the mind along with the body through an understanding of the psychology of BDSM and verbal skills that speak to their partners' psyches.
RENOWNED INSTRUCTOR
My track record of 20+ years mentoring prodominants to successful careers is unparalleled. My BDSM classes draw standing room only crowds appealing to pro, lifestyle, novice and curious people seeking in-depth knowledge. All of my group courses have sold out, with a waitlist.
BDSM TIPS
SOME BRIEF TIPS
with links to longer tips
Top/Bottom BDSM doesn't include D/s
Negotiation
1.
consent
2.
BDSM
3.
Aftercare!
4.
Do Anything In BDSM Purely For Someone Else, Some Part Needs To Be For Yourself
I advise everyone to choose an alias when entering the world of BDSM, whether you go to a club or just go online, That way you have a level of anonymity that protects your privacy, in a what is still a small global community. Plus it helps you get into your role!
Never assume someone's
BDSM role,
always ask.
NEVER
ALIAS
If you are looking for a dominant who wants a personal submissive, don't approach a professional expecting play without pay, unless they have a public request for such. You will be wasting your time. Pros have no shortage of people who want to submit to them that they know already to choose from. They are only seeking paying clients. Instead go on FetLife and other forums where Dominants are seeking what you are offering. Better yet, go to a play party or event in your area.
ERR ON THE SIDE OF CAUTION,
LEAVE THEM WANTING MORE
Let's not judge other's kink, there is enough judgement about BDSM, including about your kink.
READ
PRACTICE
TAKE CLAsses
Everybody is welcome, there is no look or type to BDSM
Life is too short not to explore your fantasies!
Someone trying to
RUSH YOU
is a
Red Flag!!
Remember it is called "Play", Have fun :-)
